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Anonymous asked:

but what do you think about them going to save Beth? he just brought carol along cause she was there.

sanjamac answered:

Hi there unknown friend,

Thank you for the message and for trusting me with this rather “sensitive” question.

I will tell you right away that I respectfully disagree with your opinion because I don’t see Daryl taking Carol along to follow the “cross car” lead just “cause she was there”.

In fact I believe that HIM taking HER along is not just significant in a way of ‘back-up’ for the search-and-rescue BUT also speaks volumes about how Daryl feels both about Carol and her own state of mind.

Let’s consider the entire episode first and I will show you what I mean.

The “Strangers” episode doesn’t seem to have much of a time jump so we can assume that the emotional reunion between Carol and Daryl had happened not that long ago. We witnessed the intense feelings exhibited during that encounter and after that scene there is no way of denying the importance Carol’s presence holds in Daryl’s personal reality.
He was overwhelmed by his emotional response to her return and their interaction both acknowledged and solidified the bond they share.
Carol is essential for Daryl’s happiness - regardless of the nature of their relationship.

In this episode we saw Carol reeling from the grief and pain brought on by the tragedy at the Grove AND we saw her struggle to adjust and find a place in the now expanded group that she used to call “family”.

What’s even more significant is that we also saw Daryl notice that Carol was having a hard time and we also saw him try as best as he can to offer support, encouragement and a watchful eye.

He steps up emotionally several times and tries to be there for her because he could tell she was slipping away from both the group and him.

Rick plans a supply mission which is something Daryl would normally spearhead or at the very least assist with BUT interestingly enough he stays behind to help Carol…carry water jugs.

He takes watch with her, he trails after her, he sits by her at supper and basically doesn’t leave her side at all, mostly because he knows she wasn’t doing well and because she had been there for him in the very same way.

In Season 2 when Daryl thought about leaving the group Carol was there to pull him back in AND it seems that now it is Carol that needs someone to do the very same thing for her. Fittingly it is Daryl who notices her isolating herself and essentially makes it his mission to make sure that doesn’t happen.
That’s the reason he follows her outside when she attempts to sneak away and that’s why they are there together when the car speeds by.

Daryl didn’t have to get Carol to go with him and in fact it would have been beneficial for him to leave her behind so she can tell the others that he was following a lead to find Beth. With both of them gone and with nobody knowing why or where they went, the group is not just more vulnerable but also prone to wasting valuable resources and time searching for them.

He could have jumped in the car and sent Carol back to the church to tell Rick but instead he choose to take her along with him.

Minutes before the car was spotted Daryl had caught Carol trying to slip away unnoticed so he knows her mind set is not a good one at the moment AND he could be thinking if he leaves her behind she most likely won’t be there when he comes back.

Weighing out all the facts Daryl chooses to take her with him because he doesn’t trust the others to keep an eye on her like he would - after all she was sneaking away and he had been the only one that had noticed.

If he chases the car on his own, Carol could tell the group and Rick wouldn’t have to search for yet another person in the wilderness - the group would have been better off that way BUT if Carol stays to do that then HE might LOSE HER and that’s more important to him.

She Is More Important To Him - That’s Why She Is With Him In That Car and That’s Why Rick Will Not Know What Happened To Them.

He Choose Her Because He Wanted Her With Him.

Carylers are not concerned about Daryl searching for Beth because we don’t need to be.

Beth was with Daryl when she was taken and naturally since she was essentially under his protection he would feel responsible for her disappearance and he would want to bring her back if he could. He searched for Sophia, Merle, Andrea, Glenn and Maggie - Daryl doesn’t leave anyone behind and seeing how he was the one watching out for Beth the fact that he will follow a lead that might result in her being found is not just completely understandable but noble as well. 

Carol didn’t have to be with him and in fact the group would have been better off if he had gone alone BUT he wanted her there and he needed to keep an eye on her to make sure she isn’t lost to him once again.

Just as she couldn’t lose him when he was straying away in Season 2, the reunion and the emotional pleas Daryl made to Carol in this episode tell us that now it is him who “can’t lose her too”.

Just as she convinced him to “learn to live with the love”, HE took HER with him to show HER the very same thing.

If anybody can pull Carol out of the depths of despair it will be Daryl AND while yes, they are searching for Beth that doesn’t mean that she is just tagging along so he can find “his true love” like some are suggesting,

Carylers know that the woman sitting next to him is the one person that is so important to him that he can’t trust anyone else with her presence or her life.

They are together - they are alone - Daryl knows she’s hurting and judging by what he was like in the last two episodes he will do whatever he can to keep her alive, safe and finally happy.
Everything else will sort itself out - I fully believe she’s with him for a reason!
A CARYL Reason!

CARYL On - The Best Is Yet To Come

Love XOXO

SANJA

lovely answer Sanja as always.. Daryl brought Carol cause he WANTED her with him. I mean after all the last time he left her she wasnt there when he got back. .

makes perfect sense.. Beth rescue mission = Caryl quality time :)

Haters gotta hate..

Some of the best scenes in tv and cinema are well known to be either add-libbed or not in the original script. (Indian Johes shooting the sword guy anyone?)  But they became iconic. Just because something was used from a blooper dosen’t make it any less meaningful. The showrunners liked the scene so much that they PUT IN THE EPISODE. Think of how many scenes they cut from shows and they left that in because they liked it. 

It showed an awkward Daryl trying be chivalrous and failing with is totally in character and suited the moment better than the original scene they had intended. It is in the show so therefore its what’s known as ‘canon’  I.e. something that appears onscreen. It is a  canon Caryl scene and it’s lovely.

And why am I even arguing about this? Cause some people gotta hate casue  it dosen’t fit their thing.. The types of people that when your happy about something they have to squash it. 

  Im mean just look at this adorablly awkward  dork.. good with a bow but not neccesarily at impressing the ladies..

And Carol is just like..

That’s MY dork.. *kissy face* 

And I’m like…

No one will ruin that moment for me..:) 

lovesdaryl

lovesdaryl:

oursubzero:

quodl:

I really don’t like how some people in the fandom are responding to Carol’s behaviour in the latest episode of twd, so I want to say a few things that I think they are refusing to acknowledge. (also they just take every opportunity they have to hate on my queen and i don’t want to sit…

Also, she’s as confused as anything, she only has Ty to talk about about the girls and he doesn’t want to talk about it. Daryl asking her at the end ‘What are you doing?’ ‘I don’t know’ she puts her heart on the line with that statement. 

'I don't know,' - I don't know help me.  Has no one ever been so confused they don't know how to fix it. or what to do. I have.

'Come on' - Come back with me, 'I've got you'

Remember Daryl actually left the group in season 3, in the modern world we would go shopping for a walk or ring a friend. Watch a movie. Carol is so sad right now, grieving. Daryl’s got her back unconditionally. Because he loves her.

Her hit backs of thanks, ‘You saved us all,’ etc. I feel devastated for Carol for all the loss right now. Its an extra layer for those who say she’s a heartless killer she is not. She’s a women doing the best she can. I love that about her character. 

Haters are only hating because they are seeing the extremely close bond and love between the two characters. They love each other. To the core. Daryl’s not going to let her go to that dark place without someone (him) by his side. He went there after Merle died. 

Let Carol have her grief. 

He knows where she is and what she needs now bevause he’s been there himself, and he will give it to her or, if it’s not just his to give - eg some time alone - he’ll make certain that she gets it nonetheless. He loves her unconditionally, and this is his way of telling her that he’ll give her all the time she needs. He’ll be there to talk - or not, just as she wants it and needs it, and he’ll accept her decision on when to talk and how much to share.

Has any man EVER been this perfect? I dare say no.

ALL OF THIS^^^

it really is quite amazing and wonderful how he is the one supporting her now isn’t it? He knows somethings wrong cause he knows her better than anyone. Got a PHD in Carol 101 does our Daryl Dixon. 

Ty put her in a bind in which she can’t talk to ANYONE about the burden she’s carrying around with her, when she clearly needs to tell SOMEONE. Keeping it inside like this eats you alive, and causes you to separate from other because you can’t or won’t share it. 

Daryl is giving her the time she gave him, the space to come to it, and more likely than not open up to him eventually, like I think she will. It’s now his turn to do for her what she did so well for him, and he is stepping up. 

The people who hate on her now are doing it because they’ve got nothing else really. The bond between them, the love is undenialable now. He so clearly loves her and will not let her go away from him, physically or emotionally for too long. 

He will do whatever he has to do keep her alive and keep her safe, according to NR, and if that’s not love i don’t know what is. So let the haters hate, that’s what they do.. cause here its all about the love :)

justyouanmee
malevawitch:

I’m still not over Daryl’s face on this part of the episode… If you look at him you can clearly see he’s sad, a bit upset and afraid… He just caught Carol when she was going to leave him (them), so you can see he’s sad and upset about it, but he’s also scared about the idea and scared to push her away, so he just asks ‘What are you doing?’. He knows what she is trying to do very well, but he just makes this question to let her talk and when she says ‘I don’t know’, he does not ask anything else, he just says ‘Come on’… No reproach, no speeches of any kind, anything that can push her away from him… He is determined to keep and eye on her and try to “take care” of her, but he’s respecting her pain and silence… And it’s perfect. PERFECT.
So excuse me while I die a little bit more because the feels…

malevawitch:

I’m still not over Daryl’s face on this part of the episode… If you look at him you can clearly see he’s sad, a bit upset and afraid… He just caught Carol when she was going to leave him (them), so you can see he’s sad and upset about it, but he’s also scared about the idea and scared to push her away, so he just asks ‘What are you doing?’. He knows what she is trying to do very well, but he just makes this question to let her talk and when she says ‘I don’t know’, he does not ask anything else, he just says ‘Come on’… No reproach, no speeches of any kind, anything that can push her away from him… He is determined to keep and eye on her and try to “take care” of her, but he’s respecting her pain and silence… And it’s perfect. PERFECT.

So excuse me while I die a little bit more because the feels…

dauntlessmaggie

Something I Don’t Understand…

dauntlessmaggie:

I really don’t get why people call Carol “weak” for being in an abusive relationship. Don’t people get how fucking STRONG you have to be, to survive in that kind of environment? It’s not a weakness. 

And I don’t want to hear “she’s weak because she stayed with him,” either. Carol has been tough as nails since the moment we laid eyes on her in Season One.